Disability, children and the family

Janine's article is really important, really well-considered. It does seem to me that there is one fundamental problem.

No "the family" in my experience cannot by itself take care of children and other family members with lots of disabilities and illnesses. Many try valiantly, and in the scheme of things, provide the best option for most children. An extreme example was of those parent-wardens who would sooner impose a series of painful and damaging medical attack on their daughter so that they can still manage her pubescent body, than allow for social care help. I don't think people by dint of fucking should necessarily have that control or choice over another life.

I've worked in special needs, am aware of the so-called professional discourse that is anti-parents, that blame parents. That is not the point, I blame society, capitalist society that in the West uses the family structure as a mode of social control not disimilar to the Islamist use of Sharia.

The family is not the best possible option. And I am not happy to soften against eugenics because we are not fighting hard enough for social relations and social infrastructure that can provide a happy, meaningful life to all people born in to this world. I don't rule out for the future, in socialistic society, that people may retain discriminatory control over their reproduction. But it will be in a wholly different context.

For now, our context is a worrying eugenicist drive, intervention into all sorts of genetic material by an scientific establishment in the pay of this existing ruling class.

I recently finished Woman on the Edge of Time, it comes to mind reading Janine's post.

I cannot pronounce upon the decisions taken now over children's lives, which in reality are the burden of atomised and isolated working-class women. For sure there are support networks on all different levels of formality. But for sure, these are grossly inadeqaute taken as a whole. And it is this social context which largely sytematises and punishes the reality of disability. So many of us are disabled by society, in so many ways. At the police station when I was arrested outside the Greek embassy, in response to his question about any mental health problems, I answered I'm a communist. Do I have any disabilities. What apart from being Black?

In this society I can't say to women they should make the best of every child's life, and the struggle continues, though that would be my wish as a whole, in the abstract. Indeed I'm often astonished and angered that some women and men bring children into this world not prepared to lift a finger to fight for their futures. In my experience, it is the dynamic of the family which is the immediate barrier to the exploration and fruition of children. Children are not property. Because you can have sex, it does not give you control over the life produced, at all and certainly not for the duration of this ever extending 'childhood'.

I feel angry for the treatment of all the children that I have come to know and have worked with over ten years of "special needs" and "emotional behavioural difficulties" work. They have more often than not been my comrades for the duration, and indeed I feel that the left has a higher concentration of people with the whole catalogue of would-be disabilities than most other spheres of life.

I cannot support the screening. I think that it will reinforce the dehumanising drive of this society toward people who are disabled. I also would never hand any control over our lives to these bastards. And I think if we genuinely had "choice", i.e freedom, few women would choose to abort.

We can't reduce the impetus for a world fit for all, which will necessarily involve the dissolution of family structures, by dispensing with "disabilities".

this may not add up. I have to think on.

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Hi Robin. Thanks for the

Hi Robin. Thanks for the praise!

I think you make some really important points. However, I don't agree with you about opposing the screening.

Fundamentally, I don't think we can oppose knowledge, especially knowledge about your own body and something that will have a big impact on your life.

What people then do with that knowledge - what choices they make, what choices they are encouraged or coerced into making, what support they get for those choices - is another matter.

The potential of screening for autism is not yet reality. But other screening does exist. Do you think that the NHS should no longer provide amniocentesis tests for women who may be at greater risk of having a child with Down's syndrome? Or not carry out ultrasound scans for the purpose of identifying potential problems? I would say that these prenatal screens are important for women and should be defended, not scrapped.

For Down's no, certainly

For Down's no, certainly. I really can't see what justification there is for aborting a child because it has Down's. A given woman may not want to look after it, ok, may not even like or want carry it. I'm not disputing that women should have that control immediately, but I stronlgly disagree that Down's slips into this category of knowledge application that is wanted or not opposed, but we can qualms about autism. Why should a Down's child be aborted any more or less than another child. I'm not saying the experience is the same. I know for sure that there are parents who love their Down's children more than their other children, and I've loved and worked with Down's people too. For me I find some aspects of life with Down's tragic, that is my framing, I also find lots of aspects of life, like death tragic too, and it's true I tend to oppose medical attempt to resist death. But this can't be taken out of context from my general perspective on the Medical Establishment and its power over the working-class, especially women.

Don't understand

Sorry Robin, but I don't understand what your 'No' refers to. Do you think amniocentesis should be available or not?

I don't know, but presumably

I don't know, but presumably tests are done for different conditions. I haven't said I oppose testing for all things. I oppose testing for Down's. That said, I can't think of an example where "I support" an abortion on teh grounds of any disability, notwithstanding all the points made about our individual predicaments.

I disagree

In that case, I disagree with you. If the medical wherewithal exists for a woman to find out whether her foetus has Down's (or has an increased likelihood of having Down's), then if she wants to find out, she should have the right to do so. To argue otherwise is to argue that society should withhold that ability to know from women, presumably because it does not trust women as to what they would do with that knowledge.

A different example

Lots of feminists across the world oppose the provision of testing for sex, not because women can't be trusted with knowledge, but because of the pressure all around to abort female foetuses, and the fact that the very testing on this basis is underpinned by sexism.

It's not the same thing as Down's but I'd oppose the provision of the test for those same reasons; the testing for Down's is disablist, and we have to explain that we not for women being burdened with any child that they do not want to or cannot look after.

Leaving aside parents who may or may not want their children dead, or regret their birth, I've not met a Down's carer that has expressed that Down's people must necessarily lead unhappy lives, still less have seen fit to pronounce on their fitness for life.

There are general and fairly absolute arguments to be made about a woman's right to choose and know, but that shouldn't be conflated with an argument which is essentially about society's views about disabilities.

Am I really missing something?

Yes, I think you are

Yes, I think you are actually missing something.

Are you seriously arguing that every woman who has had an amniocentesis (elective prenatal test for Down's) has committed a disablist act?! That they should not have been allowed to have such a test?! That this test should be withdrawn and women in future not be allowed to have it?!

That seems to me to be an extraordinary position for a socialist to take.

Would you, by extension, think that testing for or diagnosing disability or illness in a baby, child or adult is also disablist?!

we always get bogged down in

we always get bogged down in this red herring debate about compulsion. It's tedious. Leave it aside Janine: I've said several times I support a woman's right to choose in general.

But no I do not "like the idea" of people testing for Down's with a view to aborting. Yes it is a disablist act. Again, I would rather there was social infrastructure for people with Down's not that they be aborted. I think that's clear enough.

In general, our positions are for freedom of knowledge etc, but it is also not on to fade out the context in which these tests happen.

And your last point, not even worth responding to.

Robin, you stated "I oppose

Robin, you stated "I oppose testing for Down's". I responded to the words you used. I disagree strongly with them.

It is not 'disablist' for a woman to take the opportunity to find out whether the foetus she is carrying has a particular condition. It is her right - not because she has a 'right' to be disablist, but because she has the right to information that will prepare her for the decisions she may have to make.

To be honest, Robin, I think the view you are expressing here is an insult to the many many thousands of women who choose to have an amnio out of concern for their potential child, their existing children, the preparations and decisions they may have to make, and their own well-being.

Choice is only choice when it is informed choice

Robin said: "I oppose testing for Down's. That said, I can't think of an example where "I support" an abortion on the grounds of any disability, notwithstanding all the points made about our individual predicaments."

This, I think, is the crux of the matter. Supporting a woman's right to choose doesn't have to involve us "supporting" abortion on any grounds, but rather supporting the woman concerned to be able to make a clear and informed choice of her own. How can she do that, if we give her the right to choose an abortion but deny her the available diagnostic tools to make a judgment on the things that are important to her?

I definitely want to live in a world where I could feel confident that every child born could expect to receive all the care, resources and love they need irrespective of any disability they may have or the ability or otherwise of their birth parents to give that care themselves. But we all know that the world we live in now is not like that. So individual decisions about whether or not to test and then whether or not to abort based on the outcome of the test have to be left to the mother. Otherwise we might be mouthing the words "right to choose", but we are not really following through on the consequences of them.

I agree with you Kate, and I

I agree with you Kate, and I think in the main with you Janine; maybe there's another way of putting it.

I don't think as things stand I could stand up and oppose the test existing, and women making individual choices to meet their needs in the situation they find themselves in.

Do I think that the existence of this test is underpinned by disablism (I'm not sure why this widely used anti-oppression term has to be put in inverted commas)? Yes, on the whole. This is not to say that a given woman who opts for the test, and also opts to abort if positive, should be criticised or dubbed disablist, but the society as a whole that has created the need for such testing.

If we step back a bit from where you conflate my arguments Janine, maybe you can explain why you seem to have qualms about autism screening and not Down's. and I don't think you've made clear whether in the event of testing, apart from family planning reasons - and I've said what I think about the role of the family in all this - what you think about women aborting in all circumstances any foetus with autism, to the extent it happens with Downs for those who take the test. This is not just a question of choice, the test could exist, you wouldn't oppose its existence, but what would you think if the outcome of testing for autism was the same as that for Down's.

I think we have to look at this, not only from the point of view of individual women (though this is an immediate concern), but also from the point of view of our society. It happens that through my work and politics, I've come think about this and have a view. Do I think that view should prevail, over the view of individual women, no.

We all know very well that medical interventions are made, systemically, in to lots of facets of our life, as a mode of control and of cheap state solutions to working-class difficulties. Neither of you make much at all about the context, and I don't know why you think that does any favours to women as a whole. I don't know what choice it is, to be offered tests, pretty much as an alternative to care for children. This is not choice. It's choice under capitalism for working-class people.

I reiterate that at no point beyond birth do I think the child should necessarily belong to its parents. I know the reality we live in, and have made it something of a political priority to look at all the repercussions of the family. There is a widespread sentiment, from authorities to individuals, that care should be the responsibility of families. You don't have to deny that that this is a terrible reality, and we should not shirk from opposing it. In any practical sense, we would not trade today "rights and freedoms", however limited and circumscribed by capitalism, against the morality and social reality we might be fighting for for the future.

But importantly, and this is the point of my original post, I fear that on this score, the family, comrades seem to think that it's dissolution can and will happen in some molecular way come the glorious revolution. But we must acknowledge that today, despite the widespread breakdown of the family unit, the capitalist moralisers are trying to retrench it in every way, and continue to peddle the lie of the benefits of the family to the moral fabric of society, most of all with regard to children.

I haven't got time to go in to what other material options I think working-class people have as against setting up shop as a family unit, but there are options, and it is not just material factors, but ideological ones, that hold the family together.

The point is not to be pejorative about women who take tests, and I don't know what there is to be gained from trying to boil down what I'm saying to that.

Tests, choices and making good choices

If we are against diagnostic tests then we have to be, logically, against all pre-natal scanning – which after all is a form of diagnostic test, allowing medical professionals, and women/parents to assess whether or not a foetus is healthy and developing as it should be. Scans can pick up all kinds of abnormalities which may or may not be life-threatening for the foetus.

Plus there is a partial test now at the 13 week scan to see if a foetus has a high probability of having Downs Syndrome. What should we say about that?

So you have to think very carefully before you go down this route: maybe you are in favour of denying women all kinds of information which is available to them as the result of medical technology. Do you really want women to go through a pregnancy in complete ignorance of what is happening to them? To go back to a situation where they have to leave it to “fate” what the outcome of their pregnancy. That seems to me to be very regressive and I don't think any of us want that.

This may be shocking to some but I would not feel uneasy at all if a woman decided to abort a pregnancy at 13 weeks if her scan showed an abnormality which made it more likely she was carrying a foetus with e.g. Downs Syndrome i.e she had a termination for that reason alone. A 13 week foetus is a 13 week foetus – a human at a very early stage of development, not a fully developed human at all. We are not here talking about disrespecting the life and opportunities of fully developed human beings with Downs Syndrome. But of course no woman has to justify the decision to terminate her pregnancy to me, or to anyone else.

I was offered the full screening test for Downs Syndrome (after c. 16 weeks) when I was pregnant with my daughter as I was 35 at the time. I refused it on the grounds that I wanted to be pregnant and was only going to contemplate one pregnancy going to term in my life and that I would live with whatever the outcome was. Every woman faces a unique situation, and not every woman takes up these tests (if offered a choice), although many do. We should not assume at all that women are going to opt for termination, particularly as by the time you get to the point of deciding to have the test or actually do have the test; you’ve had a quite a long time living with a “wanted pregnancy” – that’s an important factor I’m sure for very many women.

Yes, a lot of children are neglected and abused and yes, I too despair at the “selfishness” that seems to be enhanced rather than repressed (as it should be) in some people when they become parents. However, that should not jaundice our view. The vast majority of people actually start out wanting to be good parents and do their absolute best for their children no matter what life throws at them.

If we actually agree with a woman’s right to chose then we have to give women advance credit for making a good choice no matter how difficult the circumstances might be – they will make a choice that is right for themselves (and their other children etc) in the first instance. Why assume as that part of the complex choice that they have to make - that we should believe they are capable of making - there is absolutely no willingness to do their best for a potentially disabled child, and that a disabled child will also be a very much wanted child.

fine, but

is there nothing to discuss other than questions of individual choice. Is there no relation to the choices people make and society. For sure, there are some, if not most who would deny women knowledge and choice on all manner of questions, largely justified by the argument that a given woman doesn't know what's best for her. I reject that. But that is not the point I've been trying to talk about.

Qualms

Robin, I don't have qualms about autism screening. What I wrote on my blog was:
"I worry about how these new findings may be used by some to whip up momentum to 'eliminate' autism. But I can not regret the advance in understanding that has apparently been made. "

... and additionally in the comments, "I don't think we should ban the test, partly because ... it would obstruct women's right to make an informed choice.

I think we should do two things:

1. Challenge the idea that women necessarily *should* abort an autistic foetus.

2. Campaign for rights for children and adults on the autistic spectrum, and for the social changes necessary to provide support for autistic people and to enable society to recognise and benefit from their contribution."

However, I do think there is another issue with autism. It is not - especially at the 'higher-functioning' end of the autistic specturm - straightforwardly a disability. It is a neurological difference that has positives as well as negatives. So it should not be discussed as though it is the same as other conditions that are disabilities.

Justice for Baby Jayden?

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=44595174482#/group.php?gid=44595174482

http://www.nuffieldbioethics.org/go/browseablepublications/criticalCareDecisionFetalNeonatalMedicine/report_519.html

disability rights

As a long time reader of the AWL site and socialist disability rights activist, I am struck by the lack of expert knowledge of disability rights and the lack of disabled voices. Janine's exclamation points just illustrate her lack of knowledge. Michael Oliver is British and his The Politics of Disablement is a classic in the field yet how many socialists have read him? Yes, I am pro-choice. But there seems to be a total lack of engagement with disability rights theory. In fact, the original piece bizarrely just assumed blindness was a bad thing. In fact, many blind advocates actually see the problem as discrimination and would place blindness in *exactly* the same category as autism. They are busy complaining about how left wing web sites don't conform with the best access standards (and left wing organizations are notorious for being terrible on disability accommodation btw; how many AWL meetings are wheelchair accessible?), not waiting for genetic tests so future children won't be blind. This is Janine's bias. Same thing with many with spina bifida and yes Down's. The women's movement needs to appreciate that this is as personal for people with disabilities as it is re a woman's right to choose. I don't see how one can be for disability rights and make distinctions on bans on aborting female fetuses and disabled fetuses. Either one is pro-choice in *all* circumstances or not. I don't see the harm on banning genetic tests either, which I think is quite different from abortion where women have died from not having access to safe abortions. Having confidence in women to make choices is rather unrealistic in a world where women are pressured to have abortions in the case of disability. In the US, where the disability rights movement is stronger than anywhere else in the world, you now have explicit alliances with the Christian Right because at least in part of insensitivity of the left on these issues. Solidarity can only be built when disability rights scholarship is read by the left. Virtually no far left organizations (the obscure Freedom Socialist Party-US is an exception) have put out disability pamphlets.

Accessibility

Hi comrade,
Your point about wheelchair access is a reasonable one, but part of the problem comes from the difficulty of finding meeting rooms at all!
In general, socialist groups have to have their meetings a) above pubs or b) in universities. Why? Because we can't afford anything else. Venues have become more and more expensive, with even pubs which were previously free now charging £20-£50 for a relatively short meeting.
Usually, the kind of venues we can realistically get are not wheelchair accessible. It's a genuine problem.
Sacha